The story so far…


Because I’ve had quite a few new subscribers lately, (due entirely to the immensely cute baby photo, I’m sure ), I’m posting this guest submission that appeared on Tamara Out Loud earlier this year. It sums up where I’m coming from, more or less.



Being raised as an insistent, dyed-in-the-wool, no-holds-barred atheist does set one up for some personal angst when one (ok, me) realises that she wants to discover God.

A road to Damascus moment would have been the ideal scenario, naturally, and I could have been loud and proud in my conversion and with my new and absolute understanding of the entire scope of Christian understanding. A nagging, uneasy feeling that I needed to begin a search and I wasn’t going to be able to relax until I’d discovered “something” is a whole lot less easy to explain or indeed to begin a conversation with.

I was raised to tolerate and respect all beliefs. Except Christians. Here, I understood that the best policy was to back away, smiling. Any interaction would instantly cause an infusion of bigotry, a passionate defence of biblical literalism and an instantaneous decrease in IQ points.

So deciding that I wanted to believe in God was a bit of a shock. And, to be brutally honest, a bit of an embarrassment. The first words that I said to the minister when I arrived at church on the first day were, “Hi, I’m Eva and I don’t think that I believe in God.” He was surprisingly fine with that, and I soon found out that I could continue to say “fuck” and drink wine and know that evolution isn’t a myth (seriously, don’t mess with me on that one), so things were definitely looking up.

The internet is both a blessing and a curse for the aspiring Christian; I have been in equal parts freaked out by the sheer amount of opinionated, bigoted claptrap promulgated in the name of Jesus and thrilled and inspired by the wonderful people seeking to do good in the world, trying to bring the message of Jesus to life. I’ve been able to find myself a neat little comfort zone where I can read about what people are doing and how people are changing the world, and where I can sit on the sofa and go, “Wow, that’s amazing! If I really believed in God, then I would TOTALLY do that.”

Because I haven’t had that road to Damascus moment, have I? I haven’t had that supernatural experience which would force me out of my (very, very small) comfort zone and make me get out there with the poor and the needy. Until that happens, I don’t really have to force myself, do I? If God truly wanted me, he would make it abundantly clear. No room for misinterpretation.

Wouldn’t he?

But then, there’s that little voice. That still, quiet voice that won’t shut. the. heck. up. That won’t let me close the book on this experiment that hasn’t ended in certainty, or proof, or absolute conviction.

The voice of God wouldn’t be a still, quiet little whisper, would it?

6 thoughts on “The story so far…

  1. I have yet to meet anyone who I truly believed had a real ‘Road to Damasacus’ moment in their lives. There are plenty of preachers who will tell you they have, but I am sceptical of those that do.
    The ones that I believe and trust in have experienced exactly what you talk about. Being nudged and prodded along the way, with whispers and the occasional clip around the ears.
    There are those crusade moments, when people ‘give their lives to Jesus’, but those are predictable responses to a mass rallying cry.
    But walking down an empty road in the middle of nowhere and suddenly God says “hey you!” – now I think that is pretty rare.
    So keep with it, you are in good company with the rest of us.

  2. I say believe what you want, just don’t let it interfere with the lives of others. That’s not to say don’t hurt people’s feelings or shit like that. Feelings will get hurt, and people will get over it. My main problem with some religions is the ‘if you don’t believe what I do then you’re burning in Hell’ concept. Woah, that’s extreme. Way to push intelligent people away. I really don’t understand the ‘searching for answers’ thing about life and afterlife. The simple fact is that we don’t know if there is an afterlife, other than the atoms that compose our bodies will continue to exist and that we become part of other living things. The best advice I can give is to believe what you like and don’t be a dick while you’re still alive.

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